Eva's Lucy Happy Visualizing Tips: January 2009

Saturday, January 31, 2009

No money no love?

There are many cases where there is no money, no love. Is that you? There are many cases of cheats where the younger man are looking for victims ready to fall into their lap and be trapped!

The snail that tried to extinguish the fire using its own fluid is dying itself...

The snail is that simple to think of using its fluid when in the fire to extinguish the fire! But at the end is dying herself. Let us not create any snails that will be harming itself by self-destruction, trying to put out the fire by its body fluids!

Cut this flower, it will wilt and die, leave it on its stalk, it will be as beautiful ever...

In the garden of plentiful flowers, many will admire their beauty, marveling at the wonder of Mother Nature who creates such beauty and grace. It is just normal for all to feel attracted by beautiful objects. Many will find the pleasure in admiring the beauty of these flowers. Yet there are some who feels special attractions to perhaps one of the flower.

Feeling so much attracted, there comes a need to pick the flower and feel it in their hands. But sad to say the flower will soon wilt and die after being plucked. If one loves the flower that much, please leave it untouched, leave it on its stalk where it can survive!

Likewise, in this earthly world, people do have feelings. Sometimes we see objects or people that one feels so much impressed and attracted to. But there are boundaries, there are limitations, there are certain things that one cannot cross, the boundary of privacy and respect.

There is nothing wrong to be attracted or to attract, but think twice.... These flowers do not belong to us, we just happen to stroll in that garden of flowers, but why should we pluck that particular flower KNOWING that it will wilt and die?

It is discipline, respect and honor between human race. People can get together as friends provided they follow the law of humanity. What is ours will be ours, what is not will never be! Respect one another, but not to an extent to be possessive or love so bold and forceful.

Forbidden love is fatal. Forbidden love can be controlled if there is real love and understanding.
Destroy not by being possessive or demanding. Loving is sweet and gentle. Loving is caring and always thinking for the other person. Loving is unconditional and love will cure. We do learn great lessons about love everyday.

We are here as admirers of beauty. We are here to acknowledge truth, we are here to love not to destroy. We can do our best as not to intrude people's private grounds where hurt will probably bring more hurt. Destruction is not our motive, thus please think twice before one can take any action.